Bottle Shares: The Do's. The Do Not's. And when do you consider yourself an alcoholic?

By: Dathan K. | Jan 1, 2017

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Do you remember that old kindergarten adage "sharing is caring" back in the day? Well, for me, let's just say it goes back many decades, but it

still holds true in today

's world

of craft beer. It's called bottle sharing – and although it has picked up some steam over the past couple years, it seems like shares at local bottle shops aren't as popular as they use to be – as many shares now go on between friends in the confides of their own homes.

But w

hat is

"bottle sharing" you might ask yourself? It's exactly what it sounds like. Sharing craft beer with fellow friends or compatriots who enjoy craft beer as much as yourself. 

Usually people who share are ones who trade beer with people across the U.S. to get beer that's not distributed in your state. Or it's the people that

go to a

brewery to stand in line for

3 hours to get that

rare release

sour

or

barrel-aged stout. For others, it's driving out of town on vacation and stopping at local breweries or bottle shops and picking up stuff you know you can't find at home. Some buy enough

bottles of one type of beer so they can

conduct

vertical flights

. Whatever it might be, it's

just a great way to try different

craft beer.

A bottle share can be great fun for the craft beer drinker

. It gives you the opportunity to share

the beer you picked up in

Michigan with

beer that someone brought home from Vermont.

In the past several years, I've added many

tasty beverages

to my Untapp'd list

that I'd never have

tried before

, a

nd I've al

so met many good friends from atten

ding local bottle shares

Although

there

is

no

set rules

for a bottle share, there are some unwritten

laws

out there. And for me, there are also some observant thoughts that I've

seen while

attending many different shares.

Be it at a bottle shop or at someone's house, everyone has a different way

of going about the sharing. No one can really

say who is

right and who is

wrong

.

But

I have put together a series of "rules" and "thoughts" that should be applied to bottle shares -

the Rules of the Playground.

1. Sharing is Caring

The

typical sharer is going to bring a

500

mL

or larger

bottle format to share with the group.

If you want to bring a 12-ounce bottle, it is best to bring two, if you can. But if you only have

one bottle of the ultra rare Westvleteren 12 – I don't think anyone is going to complain. Some of the

Veteran bottle sharers bring a few more bottles to share with the group – they've been collecting for years and don't mind sharing their "whales" with

fellow beer drinkers

. I typically

try to bring 2

or 3 bottles when Jen and I go to shares.

2. If you can't say anyt

hing nice ... don't say anything at all

If you go to a handful of shares, eventually someone will crack open a gusher, or something that has been contaminated, or even something that just wasn't made well. Believe me, it happens. But there's no reason to point your finger at the person who brought it and call them out for their horrible choice in beer. And there's no reason to log that in your Untapp'd application on your phone as a 1-bottle cap. Just pretend it didn't happen.

3. Moderation, Nest

or!

There's two points to make

under this category. The first is, you don't need to try everything that's brought to the share. Sure, you're only doing small samples of each, but eventually they add up.

If you

are at a share with 25 bottles of beer on the table,

you'll probably be drinking 25-ounce of beer. Sure,

that's not even two full pints

,

but

most of those beers are

probably high

ABV barrel-aged stouts and DIPAs. And you don't need to drink that Z

ombie Dust that you've already had 700 times before. Again, sharing is caring – let someone else who hasn't tried it get a little more.

The second part to the moderation is ... you don't have to

conduct

a share

almost

every day of the week! I see people on Untapp'd drinking up to 20 beers a day, 3 to 4 days a week. Please for the love of God

, give you poor liver a break!

4. Line 'em

U

p or

Free For All

This is more how bottle shares are done. I've been to shares where

bottle shop owners decide

the order of which beer will be poured. This is

good for the "newb

ie" bottle sharer, but gets old after a

while. For example, Jen isn't a fan of IPAs, but if

the share is

on an IPA run, she'll go 20-minutes in between beers. And sometimes there's

no

rhyme or reason to how the beers are being poured.

You can s

ta

rt with a 12

percent

Stout and end with a 4.8

percent

Berliner Weisse.

Then there is the

Free

For All.

People place their beers on the table,

pop them open, and

then you help yourself to what you want. This is my type of share. I

, like most experience drinkers, know what you want first and what you've already had in the past. I can go straight to 3 Floyd's Dark Lord first instead of waiting 8 beers in to get my pour. I can bypass all the s

ours I've had in the past. I don't need to try that flock of Virginia-based b

rewer

ies

that come to almost every bottle share. Give me what I want when I want it. But again, to each his own.

5. Don't be af

raid to ask questions

When my friend David first introduced me to bottle shares many years ago, I asked a lot of questions.

What is a share? What do I bring? I don't think my beers are good enough. I was afraid that people wouldn't like

what I brought, or it wasn't

hip enough for the cool kids.

This was shortly after

a visit through Michigan and Ohio, so I had some Jackie O's, Fat Heads, Columbus Brewing C

ompany and Shorts Brewing to bring to the table.

People liked the stuff, and the rest is history.

But if you

are new to the game, and don't have any great beers to bring to the share, always talk to your local bottle shop.

Any shop should be able to help you out.

They can

point out a new beer that just hit the shelves that

not everyone has had a chance to

buy yet.

Heck, I've been to shares where people have brought a beer that's

been sitting on shelves

for

weeks.

Maybe you were afr

aid to pick it up, and now you have the opportunity to try it.

T

he key

points to remember while at a share is to have fun,

drink some beer and meet new friends who share the same interest as you.

Be kind to your liver, and don't feel the

need to be

Joe Cool and

try to go to every share in town. Be nice to others and they may be nice to you (i

.e.

pick

up a bottle for your friend while out of town and he might do the same for you). And by all means, try to lay off your Un

tapp'd at these shares and enjoy the company and beer

. D

on't be that one person logging in every beer as soon as your ton

gue touches the liquid.